2016 and positivity

well its been 3 months since i last wrote a blog and so much has happened i would need an entire year to reel it all off.

i have worked out that when things go wrong it will always go right at some point or another but you have to want it to go right, if you stay in the negative stage then how are you supposed to move on,
at this point in time there are things that aren't going to plan but we have bounced back from worse and got through it, and i strongly believe that it will all go right in time,

as you grow older problems do arise, and how you deal with it is the biggest key to making it right, sometimes it may seem absolutely impossible to see a light at the end of the tunnel, but there is always a glimmer of hope, all you have to do is use the tools to find the light, so turn torch on and find it.

 and this what i have learnt that as many problems that have  came about i have learnt that i have become a stronger person in the mean time, and so has my other half, i don't want to bore you in to the details of the problems, but one thing is for sure, it is nothing to do with out relationship, now that is the strongest thing in our lives, that is our relationship, and we have spoke numerous times at how our relationship is so strong and wont be knocked, this month it will be our 3 years together, and it only feels like yesterday that he had asked me out on a date,

even though there are problems that need to be resolved i wouldn't want to resolve them with anyone else other than Steve, hes my everything and hes knows everything about me,

the most supportive person i know!!!!

now i want to be there for him, in his time of need and i will be there no matter what.

i love having my own independence and responsibility, puts a track in the road for you follow, i mean yeah we all have dreams off living a better life or as Steve puts it " a self sufficient life" and yes that does seem like a better lifestyle but its getting to that point, but maybe one day we will ring true.

so im guess im saying now is its 2016 and if your happy then great, you must know that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, and only you can pull yourself through it.

until the next time :)
stay safe
Rhiannon

feeling comfortable

well hello there
its has been a couple months since i have last wrote and as happened since, all good things :)
me and my boyfriend moved in to our first home, and at first i thought it would be hard and especially different to what im used to because i have never done this before, its a whole new adventure and experience and im feeling comfortable with it all, i mean at first all the bills and money is daunting making sure you have enough to cover it, but the best thing is getting all new things that you can finally call your own with your partner, making new memories together and its great,
it has been a real eye-opener to know that the person you share all these new things are going through all the same experiences and im just so lucky to have someone that really cares and will do anything to see me smile and i couldn't ask for another, we was having a conversation last night and it was fun because we were listing off our different profile we have around people and what love about each other its just nice to have a meaningful conversation with him, i absolutely love it.
all the little things that we do for each other just mean so much more.

every thing else is falling in to place,
i have realized that i shouldnt hold grudges because there is more to life, and im all about living it instead of worrying what people think.
making more friends and finally being happy with everything
so grateful for everything, and have really learnt alot about myself

believe in yourself
till next time
Rio
xxx

The Next Chapter

Hey strangers,
has been a while, well not that long think my last blog was in march.
so in the few months that have passed a lot of things have gone on.
lets just say me and my boyfriend future is looking nice and bright and i really cant wait to go through each ride with him.
so the 1st of august is when everything changes, and all our dreams and talks can be put to reality,
im just so excited and and unbelievably happy,
i guess i have learnt a lot from being in a relationship and that yes their are struggles but i would rather go through the struggles to get to the happy ending and i think we have had some downs but we have pulled through together and always come out the other side.

the one thing i love is talking about the plan of action and then knowing it will all come true in the end or even in 3 weeks,

soon i can focus on my studies and become the person i need to be in order for myself to be better.

life is definitely something but  when you can share your life with someone you love, adore, and they see all of you every side that you have and still want you, because they see the real you beneath all the protective exterior, im lucky to have life for one, but also lucky to have a life that can be shared with.

so in 3 weeks or the 1st of august things change, and for me personally its potentially massive. but i am so excited to take this journey with steve,
see you soon stay safe and
cherish every moment
Rhiannon
x

friends

hello, its the 28th of march and around 11.36am
so on this gloomy saturday morning i shall be talking about friends, we have them, we grow up with them, we love them, we share moments with them, we fight with them, we drift away from them, which ever way you look at it they were in your life for one reason or another and both your paths connected either for a long while or just a short time,

we all know that when we grow up friends come and go and by that time you can really start to count your true true friend on one or two hands, but its not to be looked at in a negative way, being popular and having loads of friends isnt always the best, because sometimes you can more alone with a room full of people,

i would rather a few friends that stuck with me for all i am than a room full of fake people who are just their to make numbers or use you for one thing or another, and probably dont even know you last name.

i think its important to take many key factors out of meeting these people in your life that maybe they arent in your life anymore, for many reason. good and bad can be taken from a friendship but its better to look at the positives than the negatives.

from personal experience i have had friends that i thought were for the long haul, but it didnt go that way but i look at it as a good experience because their were tons and tons of good times over the bad, and actually the only bad times was when we fighting over one thing which led to us not talking anymore,

so i appreciated all my past friends for walking in to my life because it has molded me in to the person i am today, and i will forever take that forward,

enjoy the company, have laughs, do silly things, i love all my friends and continue to make new friends because it what we all do,

so friends come and go

lesson in its self,

have a great day

Money Can Be Dangerous to have it all or nothing at all

hello anons,
how do you do, hope your well, ok so i have to write this quick as i have to leave in 25 mins, but lets get this done, ok so todays subject is on money,
 now we all have money whether its a small amount or not, and we all use it differently, people use it fuel their "happiness" other give it to charity. now which ever you decide to do with your money, you know that you have earnt it,
now i am not rich, i am getting buy one day at a time, i categorize myself as a lender, not so much a borrower but if i do borrow i make sure its my life goal to give it back promptly.
because they earned that money they gave to me and so that teaches me a lesson and its one i want to get across,
struggle in life are going to happen, we are built for suffering and struggles, and money comes in to this all so easily, if you are going to borrow money know that the other person spent days weeks months even years to save that, they are doing it out of the kindness of their heart, dont make them a fool and unappreciated, because its hard earned cash.
now there always various reason why money cant paid back so soon. we all have things to do and pay for but prioritize and learn from all mistakes,
i have had this experience and i am trying to figure out the best possible way to deal with this. time is of the essence,
the money i gave was saved up for a rather long time, i earned it, yet the borrower is struggling to pay back, we both know this, we have fallen out about this now because the last payment i received was over a year a go,
so let me tell you this a mistake can easily happen, but its about making it right, i dont know if they will ever return the money. but i want them to know i did a good thing. and lets just hope one day they have a heart and give it back.
so anons please respect your own money, because once its gone it takes a while to get it back. so im off to earn my honest money,
until the next
have a lovely day
remember you can have it all or nothing at all

Love

hello again,
i said last month i would be posting on various topics that have been happening in the last 7 now eight months,
so first on the list was love
now love is a powerful thing its make you do things you wouldn't think possible both bad and good, but in that moment you cant grasp the full feeling of it. now if you feel this love, dont ever let it go because its hard to get that feeling back. if you have it you must cherish it with all your heart,
respect and honor your loved one. because one day it might just up and go.

now the reason i say this is because i have this feeling of love, of which to my boyfriend, and no we are not perfect but neither is any of you, a lot of couples like to set the scene of lovey kissy, blah blah  for the public eye but behind closed doors its completely different.

so i digress love is hard to find but can be found. in everyone i believe love can be found in everyone you meet, but love is categorised differently. the love you have for your mother, brother, friend, ect. all should be cherished.
so the last 7 months i have experience a new love from being with my boyfriend more than i could ever thought possible, but it has left me feeling different about other situations. leaving the family home that  makes bonding from your family different, i cherish every moment i have with these people and that why i send this message, to anyone who will listen, doesnt matter if you are friend or foe, there was love there and maybe there still is, but you must cherish it so much when you have it.

these experiences will grow in time.

you maybe confused in this post, but my message is purely to cherish loved ones, there is always room for more love.


there could be a underlying problem here but i havent figured it out.

im sure i will get there, my next post will hopefully be soon but i cant guarantee it.

but i leave you with love
take care anons

nearly the end of a year

hello, strangers , its been seven months since I last posted, and judging on that time I was about to move in to my bf house, and everything changed from then on, a lot has gone on and it seriously would take the worlds life time to explain im sure in future posts I will explain, but on a good note me and my bf are still happily in love and we are still living together hoping to get our own place next year some time, all I can say is that in the last 7 months I have learnt an awful lot. responsibility, listening and learning and grasping a sense of life.

to bullet point topics to be discussed in future post:

• love
• money
• friends
• jobs
• family
• cars
• trust

and so much more, each bullet point will be gone into such detail, its overwhelming

 but for now I just want the idea of settling back in to a routine to which I can hopefully stick to.
 because Christmas and new years is around the corner and its about to get a whole lot better, I so happy where I am now, couldn't ask for it any other way. life makes you who you are, so live it
 till next time
take care
look after one another
xxx