Saturday, 28 March 2015

friends

hello, its the 28th of march and around 11.36am
so on this gloomy saturday morning i shall be talking about friends, we have them, we grow up with them, we love them, we share moments with them, we fight with them, we drift away from them, which ever way you look at it they were in your life for one reason or another and both your paths connected either for a long while or just a short time,

we all know that when we grow up friends come and go and by that time you can really start to count your true true friend on one or two hands, but its not to be looked at in a negative way, being popular and having loads of friends isnt always the best, because sometimes you can more alone with a room full of people,

i would rather a few friends that stuck with me for all i am than a room full of fake people who are just their to make numbers or use you for one thing or another, and probably dont even know you last name.

i think its important to take many key factors out of meeting these people in your life that maybe they arent in your life anymore, for many reason. good and bad can be taken from a friendship but its better to look at the positives than the negatives.

from personal experience i have had friends that i thought were for the long haul, but it didnt go that way but i look at it as a good experience because their were tons and tons of good times over the bad, and actually the only bad times was when we fighting over one thing which led to us not talking anymore,

so i appreciated all my past friends for walking in to my life because it has molded me in to the person i am today, and i will forever take that forward,

enjoy the company, have laughs, do silly things, i love all my friends and continue to make new friends because it what we all do,

so friends come and go

lesson in its self,

have a great day

Saturday, 7 March 2015

Money Can Be Dangerous to have it all or nothing at all

hello anons,
how do you do, hope your well, ok so i have to write this quick as i have to leave in 25 mins, but lets get this done, ok so todays subject is on money,
 now we all have money whether its a small amount or not, and we all use it differently, people use it fuel their "happiness" other give it to charity. now which ever you decide to do with your money, you know that you have earnt it,
now i am not rich, i am getting buy one day at a time, i categorize myself as a lender, not so much a borrower but if i do borrow i make sure its my life goal to give it back promptly.
because they earned that money they gave to me and so that teaches me a lesson and its one i want to get across,
struggle in life are going to happen, we are built for suffering and struggles, and money comes in to this all so easily, if you are going to borrow money know that the other person spent days weeks months even years to save that, they are doing it out of the kindness of their heart, dont make them a fool and unappreciated, because its hard earned cash.
now there always various reason why money cant paid back so soon. we all have things to do and pay for but prioritize and learn from all mistakes,
i have had this experience and i am trying to figure out the best possible way to deal with this. time is of the essence,
the money i gave was saved up for a rather long time, i earned it, yet the borrower is struggling to pay back, we both know this, we have fallen out about this now because the last payment i received was over a year a go,
so let me tell you this a mistake can easily happen, but its about making it right, i dont know if they will ever return the money. but i want them to know i did a good thing. and lets just hope one day they have a heart and give it back.
so anons please respect your own money, because once its gone it takes a while to get it back. so im off to earn my honest money,
until the next
have a lovely day
remember you can have it all or nothing at all